What was your experience of wax and wane like?

Great was able to get hard pretty quickly. Was sort of surprising how quickly it would go soft like within 30 seconds to a minute. But it was a good experience

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It was a great experience, I felt very turned on in an intense way, and I felt in control.

It took too long for my perspective, but I guess this will improve with time. I realized that so many thoughts unrelated to the moment would cross my mind. I would like to learn to shut my brain during that time.

learning that its not just a single on-off.

Couldn’t get a full erection

Powerful. I got 3 erections in the 20 mins. I felt very in tune with my body and didn’t judge myself when I lost any of my erections. On the contrary, I wanted to cum (though I decided not to).

The fella didn’t get rock solid, but he stood up to attention the three times.
I’ve not really tried working him up like that before, except on the odd occasion ive really wanted to continue with a partner but was not in the right headspace.
I can see the benefit of the exercise when with a partner - it wouldn’t be panic stations, it’d be a practiced, been here before deal, all under control.

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I loved it. I have been limiting myself to masturbating one day a week, as I’ve found it makes me more horny to go out and speak to women. I feel like I’m going to take this up as a hobby in between. I feel like I finally understand what everyone has been saying, penetration is just one part of sex. I can go hard and soft and what really matters is me and my chosen partner touching each other and enjoying ourselves.

It worked good i hard enough for penetrative and I was able to get it to come back fairly fast. I’m limiting myself to jacking off to once a week. We’ll see how this goes

Fascinating that i got it up couple of times after doing it slow, then letting it go

This time was much better since I haven’t mastirbated in a week. Super easy this time around but im still not going fully mastirbate so I can keep this progress

Experienced an awesome feeling. Feeling a relaxing sensation.

I was surprised at how quick I got it back up

Felt a little different but not too bad

It is a calming sensation and felt good to be able to get a full erection, intentionally lose it, then after 1 minute get it right back 3 times.

Didn’t go back down even after a minute or two because wanted to keep going

Surprised how natural it was without the pressure. Already feeling more confident. Something about literally seeing it makes that connection. I know it will be tougher with partner and anxiety, but it does give me more confidence.

It’s amazing how much more confident you feel even after one session

Great to really engrain those arousal patterns

I was surprised how quickly my erection went away and how difficult it was to get it back.