Just a doctor who prescribed Viagra.
Kegels for me/kegel stretch, masturbation almost to climax then wait to erection is gone-re-do 5 times to learn to trust erection will come back, ED pills.
The exercises worked well just adding mojo to change mindset at be better informed.
Iāve tried taking Cialis with mixed results. Sometimes I was able to be rock hard with my partner with no issues, but other times there was no change. It is an expensive option and I feel it isnāt sustainable to do it indefinitely as there becomes a reliance.
I knew it wasnāt anything physically wrong with me as I had no issues with being hard watching porn, so itās all in my mind.
Mojo so far as helped and given me reassurance that Iām not alone, but I still donāt feel completely comfortable yet and am still reliant on the pills
None, really. The doctor recommended medication but trying to veer away from a dependency towards it.
None really. I would try to talk to a new partner about it ā because it would come up anyway especially after a few disappointing sexual encounters early on where I would be anxious and therefore not able to get an erection ā but I found that it didnāt always help. With some women they can be understanding and then the stress goes away and Iām able to relax more, but others just add to the pressure because they want me to fix the problem and that just makes the cycle continue. So other than talking with them I hadnāt really spoken with anyone about it I guess I naively was just hoping that with the right woman I would be relaxed and she would be understanding and I would get properly aroused, but now I know itās not as simple as that
I looked at online sources like websites and reddit but there were many differing opinions. I also tried group that advocate stopping masturbation altogether. Neither of the helped as much as the non judgemental mojo training class.
I thought I had health problems or would need Viagra pills soon. I am 28 years old. But then I met my girlfriend, who is a psychologist and she helped me to understand that it might be psychological issue affecting me. So I came across mojo trying to look for help online. I was able to get erections and ejaculate on my own, but with a partner it was always difficult. So mojo has helped me to understand that my issues are common amongst others my age.
I tried speaking to my GP who just supplied Cialis, I tried taking it through with my wife but it became a massive issue. Mainly around my lack of vulnerability.
I had been to a sex therapist but it didnāt help much. I found ciallis and viagra really useful!
I saw doctors who of course just prescribed pills. I got a blood flow test because I assumed it had to be a physical problem because I thought I was to young for this. Turns out it truly is in my head and after a few days of mojo I was able to get hard without pills, still working to maintain that erection but super happy with the results so far.
Therapy, websites, doctors.
GP, urologist and therapist. Also google
Talked a lot to my therapist about it. Still working on the whole issue.
I didnāt really look for much support before I just suffered alone but now mojo has been really helpful for me!
ED pills mostly, but I did read a book about two years ago called Sexual Intelligence that helped me become much more aware of how chasing perfection in the bedroom is a foolās errand.
Therapists, counselling, Gp, some benefit. Medication becomes a bit of a crutch and was being overridden by the anxiety. Was given some mindfulness but can be over mindful. So now looking at MOJO and also looking at meditation.
I saw a sex therapist. It was helpful, and expensive lol.
I mentioned it to my therapist but didnāt pursue it very far. Mojo has been a stand in for going to a sex therapist, a good one too. Well done people!
Do you still feel the Phoenix is beneficial? If so, were your prior symptoms psychological at all, or purely physical? Did you feel like it helped your mental state to see actual improvement, like the device results pushed you in the right direction mentially?
In addition to most of the things mentioned already in this thread, I went to see someone who is sometimes called a sacred intimate or a body worker.
Theyāre not technically therapists because licensed therapists cannot touch you. This guyās (of course there are female ones too) realm technically would fall under sex work, despite the unfortunate negative connotations our culture places on that term.
Essentially, this sacred intimate is ready for anything, like most sex workers need be. My issue presents itself mainly as being unable to get erect with another person in the room, so several sessions were spent with me simply masturbating in front of him, sometimes with touch, sometimes not, sometimes in the dark, etc.
But it can run the gamut too, from experiencing anal sex, questions about nipple play, BDSM, etc. This guy was even a better psychotherapist than my ārealā licensed therapist. But alas, he was also very expensive, and covid forced me to budget things differently.
EDIT: I forgot the obvious questionādid it help? Was I able to get an erection because of this guy? At the time, no, but my psychological issues run DEEP. Deep, deep, deep; still working on them. But I do believe he (along with a āregularā psychotherapist, and several other things Iāve tried) got me to where I am now: in a better state of mind to actually start benefiting from something like Mojo.