Being fully in control of myself and of the act. Primary giver and receiver of pleasure. Being dominant and demanding. Living in the moment, and remembering it with the woman i love.
Being pursued and desired and not needing to drive sex.
Being completely accepting for my submissive side. Not having expectations on performance etc.
Feeling desired, confident, and in control.
Living free of anxiety and being able to be in the moment everytime
Sex is the ultimate form of human connection
Just enjoying each other’s body and intimacy
Being able to be free sexually.
Having fun and enjoying sex.
Love making and Exploring each others bodies and feel good spots.
Kissing and Cuddling.
Being cared for.
Finishing inside your partner.
Feeling the warmth of each other body flowing to the other body and vice versa
Finding a reciprocity with your partner and having a dance of sensation and emotion
Being physically comfortable with another person, to the point that you can explore and be explored. Being open and excited to delve into that person: their psyche, their kinks, their sweet spots. Sex should be an open, honest conversation.
Sex is fundamentally important to life; I see it as a huge deal. When sex is good you feel empowered and in tune with the world. It’s incredibly emotional. Not having sex or not having a partner who appreciates sex the same way can be deflating.
Sex is connecting with someone you love on all levels
Sex is being able to talk openly and without fear that what I say might be weaponised against me. Being truly vulnerable and still being accepted feels like sex
Sex is about having fun but releasing all of the inhibitions you have in your day to day life. It means connecting with a person on a physical level (no romance required). Once the vibes match, I love being able to tune myself to the energy of the other person, and I deep down want to be able to (consensually) pin them down, take control, and pleasure them in what ever way they see fit. It doesn’t even necessary mean me penetrating them.
Sex is about fun, sensuality, pleasure, and release
It’s about being close and feeling connected
To both enjoy love and passion together
Personal and intimate
Sex is about feeling open and vulnerable, being able to experience unadulterated pleasure without judgement