What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

Body worship

Worship

I want sex to feel fun and playful, yet satisfying and intimate. I feel like I want to be the dominant and her to be the submissive, but I don’t mind playing both roles. I want sex to feel like all my worries and anxieties have washed away and we feel total trust and acceptance in each other.

I also like to worship there body by kissing them all over, touching them, giving pleasure and making them feel great

My preference and tendency is to be the dominate one, and for her to be submissive and fully desiring me. But I also love the way it feels to just touch and explore female bodies… noticing all the different textures and motions and intricacies about the body. Worshiping it and just enjoying it without having to perform or do anything myself. Also just the act cuddling skin to skin can be extremely satisfying as well.

Celebration and exploration of each other. Bonding experience

Feeling fun and excitement and fulfillment and joy from sensory and emotional stimulation

Just to cuddle and hold each other. Have some quality closeness and have fun!

Touching and kissing each others bodies all over

Being emotionally, physically and mentally one with my wife. He feeling safe and trusting me to be the man our family needs.

I would love to live by an expanded definition of sex that includes a variety of things, situations, and play, and all of it revolving around enjoying time with my partner, feeling accepted and wanted, not having to feel like I have to be something I’m not. I want to make her feel good, and allow her to express her desire for me. I want to play rough and be gentle at different times. I want to explore her and find out what she likes, and be direct about what I want in a way that owns my neediness. I want to be open about my sexuality instead of hiding from it.

I wish that sex could be more spontaneous for my partner and I. I want to be pursued for sex, I want to feel lusted after, that he just has to have me on the couch, in the stairwell, in the car.
I want him to tell me how I can pleasure him. Tell me what he fantasizes about then make that come true.
I want to make it more varied, I want to stray from our usual top/bottom routine.

I would like for me and for the partner i will have sex with, to be happy, comminicative and palyful all the way. I want us to use sex to be more connected and explore freely together any types of activities that give as pleasure <3

I’d love sex to feel more playful. And seeking the connection after is also a major point. I love a good cuddle.

Sex is the carnal toss and tumble, the hunt and the capture, the push and the pull… it can be playful and joking, teasing and playful… but ultimately it is that deep connection with the person that tugs at my being.

I wish that sex is something I can use as a way to communicate my feelings to my partners and to show them how much I desire and want them. I think sex is a primal communication tool and should be about both parties sharing in mutual pleasure and being satisfied even if it’s not entirely 50/50 all the time.

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Sex is a way of connecting and building connections with people. Its practical as it helps you relieve stress and discover things about yourself as well.

Sex is another way of connecting with your partner. A time to show how much you desire each other. And that’s why I’m so scared that my penis doesn’t go up, because deep down I feel my partner believes I don’t desire her. Which is bullshit.

À daily practice of sharing affection and desire.

Being comfortable stopping and starting whenever