What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

[cautious-aquamarine-trout]

Giving pleasure and feeling adequate

[efficient-gray-sturgeon]

Absorbing each other’s energy. Indulging in playfully aggressive fantasy. Being present with my partner.

[arbitrary-amethyst-wildebeest]

Exploring each others bodies with no fear or shame

[sure-sapphire-dinosaur]

Watching my partner fuck other people

[kind-copper-mule]

Genuine lust and arousal and not an attempt to make up for the last bad attempts

[impressive-red-duck]

Sex is just spending time naked together, or partially naked, enjoying each other in any way that feels right, easy communication, so pressure to be any sort of way. Just pure appreciation and connection.

[moderate-gray-penguin]

Just to enjoy what ever happens in the moment without any pressure.

[zealous-jade-ferret]

Something I wanna fucking enjoy and not think so hard about

[variable-moccasin-felidae]

Enjoy being sensitive and affectionate.

[shared-ivory-xerinae]

It’s about connection with another person. Feeling them deeply and then feeling you. Getting to know them deeply all over and them you. It’s all about the joint experience with both people lost in the other.

[new-crimson-dolphin]

Just to have fun and enjoy pleasuring each other.

[racial-bronze-hawk]

Mutual pleasure and enjoying the company of each other in body and mind.
The level of connection and vulnerability you can achieve with a partner.

[busy-ivory-newt]

Mutual pleasures with no strict rules, don’t have to think about

[provincial-emerald-urial]

Being part of something consensual and equally intimate.

[sleepy-blue-buzzard]

For sex to be fun and not a stressful thing. Something I look forward to and not something I try to avoid

[zeroth-ivory-bison]

For sex to be fun and something I look forward to, not somethin im scared of or try to avoid

[desirable-silver-mongoose]

For me, sex is about connection, and having a unique bond with the person you are having sex with

[yappy-red-kite]

I would like to have sex! To have a sexual relationship based on my partner wanting me , by exhibiting an amorous side, to be able to talk openly and honestly about sex. I would like not to feel guilty about my desires and sexual fantasies but to be able to share them and talk about them.

[different-aquamarine-gerbil]

I want to have pleasurable sex when my partner and I are both interested in it. I want to be able to have that connection through sex and not feel
Shame when things don’t go as planned

[rapid-black-whale]

I think that sex is a sharing of pleasure! Whether at the same time or taking turns, and (as long as it’s consensual ), regardless of the means