What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

Comfortable and confident with no anxiety

I wish our relationship was built on both her and I pursuing each other and being pursued, while also having a side of submissiveness, where we ask each other for favors and attention.

Ask for things that won’t make you feel embarrassed asking for

Being and feeling completely free!

Feeling the release of tension with my wife as she releases hers

Lots of licking and nibbling each others body . Watching her moan and then cumming inside her .

Sex is spending quality time with a girl you really like, not necessarily engaging in intercourse but having a good emotional connection with someone that you feel happy and confident doing the physical things with as well

I want to dominate my woman and just take her wherever I want. I want to slowly drive her mad with need over the entire day. I want to tease her and make her beg.

And then I want to cuddle and do cute stuff together.

And I also want to massage her and touch her and have her do those things to me and really just be intimate without needing penetration at all.

Shared pleasure in a safe space

I want to wild and take control when in bed with my wife but I’m afraid that she would be scared of that. She wants me to teach her to be naughty but I don’t know how or how to respond to or let my wild side show.

The sensual connection to my partner is the most important component. It changes all the time. Sometimes, holding her is the best, other times it’s when we’re passionately making love. The struggle for me is that I’m not completely sure which one I’m going to get and she tends to expect the latter all the time.

Intimacy and connection

I want to feel worshipped. My skin is responsive to the touch. I want affirming skin to skin, body contact and petting and stroking and oral sex to get me very turned on and aroused. When I fuck, I want to get somewhat aggressive and my partner to lie still and be submissive, taking all of me until I finish.

I want to give pleasure. I want to feel connection.

My personal definition of sex is getting lost in the moment. Not rushing or thinking about time, but being completely lost with both of us feeling and giving/receiving pleasure until we can’t anymore, and enjoying the energy and ecstasy

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I want to give and feel love without any stress of performance. I want to be in the moment with someone I truly care about without worry

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Being one with my partner. Not worrying about anything outside of what pleasures is in the moment.

Pure pleasure and not worrying how big my penis is or if I make her cum everytime

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I want to be wanted. I want her to dress, act and touch in a way that excites me because she wants me. I want to be excited and forceful because she wants me to be like that. I don’t want to feel like I am the initiator of everything.

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