What’s an expanded definition of sex you wish you could live by?

Seeing her get as much or if not more pleasure from it

An opportunity to be completely one. To express love, desire and freedom to show and share our more dark sexual desires. But… it’s relevant to who you are with

Feeling wanted and desired and wanting and desiring someone on the same level and letting it naturally happen like a blissful adventure

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Exploring our desires and achieving pleasure for both of us

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Deep emotional connection. Mutual pleasure and playing with each others turn-ons. The best sex I ever had involved weaving our secret fetishes & fantasies into the experience, but not necessarily having them be the “main act”.

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When bodies intertwine, and minds connected. When feelings are shown, and pleasure are shared. Sex to me is making someone feel good.

It’s being lost in the moment, exploring each others body, experimenting, testing each others limits and understanding how each others fire is ignited!

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Arousing and pleasing each other to the point of losing control and letting go

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Making passionate love. Passion is the key

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Being connected and vulnerable and playful

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The job I have doesn’t define me as a masculine man or person; that my job doesn’t influence my perception of me and my sex life.

True connection, playful and in harmony with each other

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I see it as a powerful gesture of loving someone.
Really feeling that emotional connection is important to me.
I like the vulnerability of each of us showing our deepest desires to each other.
Sharing thar kind of thing is powerful.
I’m quite primal and I like to take charge, she accepts me for that.
It makes me feel whole in a world I generally feel like I don’t fit into.

Being able to connect mentally and physically. Constantly having the desire to make love.

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Goofy joke sorry, I suddenly feel like a predator who lost its teeth…

But seriously, this is great stuff…

Sex to me is a time to release built up sexual tension and energy. It doesn’t always have to be an intimate thing, though doing it with intimacy can usually release a higher level of tension and be more satisfying

Two partners, exclusively together, focussed on pleasing each other, and being in love outside as well as inside the bedroom.

Devoted attention and desire

It should be relaxed, exciting and fun