I can hear my wife voice criticizing me for not getting or staying hard. Then I hear my voice telling me to not screw this up.
Alternative version of me
It’s just an annoying voice. It overtly loud or aggressive but just makes the passing passing comments that cut deep like, “C’mon bruh. Get it together. Really? That’s sad. Wow. That’s really all you got?”
Honestly, I don’t hear my inner critic about sex. I definitely have one in my professional and social life, and I’ll definitely be repurposing this exercise to aid with those, but in regards to sex my inner critic is a feeling. A burning in my perineum, a very tight pelvic floor the moment anything sexual comes into my mind. Is that more like fear or apprehension, then? A biological stress response to intimacy?
Very subtle thought in the back of my head thinking if it’ll stay up
Just my voice behind my ear, telling me how I’m gonna fail something, how I’m not capable of doing it, or believing that I can relax and let things be or happen.
Sexually it tells me that I won’t get hard, and he is right, the only way I can do it it’s by losing focus around me. Like getting lost without thinking.
My inner critic is like an annoying voice in the back of my head that is shouting that things are going to wrong before they do. It’s also sometime like the voice is a lumberjack - like shouts TIMBERRRR as it’s going flaccid.
It predicts that I won’t stay hard and then I become frustrated
My inner critic says I’m too small, I can’t get her off, and even if I can it takes an hour or better. Plus she’s older and more sensitive in a bad way so I’m already in a box limiting what I’m able to do
It’s just a litany of emasculating insults. If you can imagine any insult to a man, in regard to sexual performance, it runs through my head.
Annoying pessimistic voice that tells me I’m going to fail and what to watch out for when I’m having sex and “make sure not to just early”
I don’t know what my inner critic is like, not sure I even have one anymore, it’s more like I’ve already successfully silenced it, but accidentally silenced all the good thoughts in the process, so now it’s just total silence.
Quit, quick and of few words…
It sounds like just me. Saying things like you aren’t big enough, you won’t get hard, if you do get hard you’ll either get soft or cum too quickly. You’ve been too dependent on drugs and alcohol and now your body has a dependency.
My own voice telling me about my awkward experience when I lost it or couldn’t get it hard. Hoping that it doesn’t happen again. Telling me that I hope I don’t make her feel like I’m not into her sexually.
A little voice or memory of my awkward experience in which I couldn’t get it hard or keep it hard. Telling me that it hopes that you don’t go back like before and make her feel like I’m not into her sexually.
My inner critic is very pessimistic. My inner critic comes off as always right as well so that’s frustrating because I feel like I have came to believe in the pessimism and label it as logic.
It’s angry sometimes but mainly just upset you know it just keeps asking my self why can’t I do better. What’s wrong this time ? And why is this part of life now stressed
Great start with foreplay but when it comes to the time of getting hard I became doubtful in my mind whether or not I could achieve hardness.
My own voice in my head telling me that I won’t be any good and to just give up trying.