Hey Gang! Just wanted to check whether someone is in the same boat as me? Morning erections and the random erections throughout the day are weak or not full to have penetration sex. When I watch porn I can get full / hard erections. Went to doc and he was like a car salesman who suggested 6 treatments at once to get “effective results”. My question in my head is if I can get it up during porn is it really a physical issue ? And if it’s not a physical issue why are my random and morning erections so weak ?
I would believe this is more mental and what you have trained your mental state to be in and find appealing. I would look at backing off porn and mentally practicing your own stimuli
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Appreciate it but it still shouldn’t morning/ random erections right ?
Appreciate it but it shouldn’t impact my morning/ random erections right ?
Had weaker morning erections than when I was really turned on by porn. I started doing the reverse kegels and different kegels daily and now have harder morning and random erections than I’ve had in years. Same with sex (when I get out of my own way). I quit the porn as it just messes with my mind and makes me more and more anxious in the long run. Have you tried the kegels and reverse kegels?
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I haven’t , just joined this app 2 days ago so will def start this week. Appreciate your comment
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Lack of sleep can affect morning erections as well. Seen other studies that also suggest there are unique benefits to things like blood pressure from going to bed before midnight.
I don’t have the best sleep patterns but not something I can fully control either ^ trying to work on it
It really does sound like a psychological issue. You’re testing yourself to get hard. And that’s not how that works 
. You know you can get hard. The doctor is only giving treatments that he is permitted to give. If you went to a sex therapist you would get a different answer. The doctor just knows that the pills work. And sure they will work but that doesn’t mean you would need them
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How do I find info on metals/reverse kegals and how to do/how many to fo
So, I was exactly the same. Started exercising and I take 2 supplements from a company called UMZU Testro X which has some ashwaganda, and Redwood which is a Nitric oxide booster. My morning wood is pretty solid now, but still get the psychological shutdown with a partner. At least I know it’s not a physical impossibility. Keep trying to find something that works for you, good luck.
Appreciate your response , will definitely check it out. Gives me hope that something might work. Any side effects you felt with the above so far ? How long have you been taking this for ?
The reason I’m upset with the doctor is because I know that was a shady sales tactic without actually caring about solving my problem
I have had no reactions whatsoever. I am on blood pressure meds with no apparent interaction. Been using them for years. I’m 59. There is something out there that will work for you, just keep trying.
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Go under activities > sexual fitness. You should find them there
Too much porn can effect erections and morning wood. I was having the same issues and now that I have stopped watching porn my morning wood has come back and i get even harder now when I am engaging in sexual activity
I have PED and a deathgrip.
Before I forms the app, I tried Viagra and Cialis.
Neither worked with a partner. That’s when I panicked and found mojo. I read these posts a lot, figured out my problem was mental and worked on it. Started Kegals, reverse and a couple other things to work on pelvic floor.
The biggest help was coming clean with the new gf. Completely open and honest. It’s my problem but there may be a few ways she could help: don’t judge, it’s not that I don’t find you attractive or desirable! I suggested she talk a lil naughty in bed- not gross, just be blunt. (A while back we were messing around in the morning- she asked me to finger her as she worked her clit with a toy….. (not sure what was hotter- the ask or the act??!!)
I’m still taking Rugiet when we’re going to be together- my mind is finally allowing the meds to work. It wasn’t in the beginning…. Meds couldn’t overcome what was going on in my head….
Good luck man!!
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Thank you so much for sharing your story !
I want to reach there but I feel without it I have no desire and don’t get turned on. I am not an addict and watch occasionally but still kinda need it - my wife and I trying to get pregnant so that’s so much added pressure to perform on certain days too. I literally freak out and how can have sex when freaked out