Using Mojo? Results. Neglecting Mojo? Struggles

A Few weeks back my girlfriend and I were trying to have sex and I couldn’t get it up. Embarrassed and ashamed I began asking what was wrong with me.

I started working out again, using Mojo, and tackling my anxiety (general and performance anxiety).

That weekend, we were at camp and had spontaneous sex in the river twice and were touching each other in bed too but didn’t have sex as it’s a one room camp we were staying in with others. But the results were real and we were both happy.

I didn’t practice mojo last week and when we were cuddling before bed/in the morning I couldn’t get hard until she slowly started touching and rubbing me. I told myself to be present and feel the stimulation and enjoy it and was able to get hard enough to have sex again. This was a personal success but I knew I had to get back to Mojo to continue improving.

I am about to renew my subscription to continue working on this - it is in our heads guys, and this is the key to getting out of it. I know in no time we will all have even better stories of our successful sexual endeavors.

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What worked for you to be present? Did you focus on something specifically about her?

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In the river she was floating and I was holding her from floating away, she was rubbing slightly on me with the current and i was observing her as she relaxed. She felt me get hard and once the coast was clear climbed on top of me. In bed, I was laying on my back with her arm and leg across me. I was telling myself to enjoy and feel what is happening as she slowly touched me gently and then harder as I got harder. Try and focus on what is happening instead of what has or could happen. I know it’s not easy and am working on it myself but it paid huge dividends

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It sounds as though you have really managed to get back into your body. Great that you could notice the thoughts creeping in but a part of you can say -‘no’ - just stay in the moment and enjoy the sensations. Well done : )