I’ve separated from my wife and have purchased Viagra for when opportunities arise. I have taken it a few times when I sense that I may have an opportunity, and even propositioned a woman who I had a vibe with, but I was turned down.
Context: I’ve only ever had sex with one woman that I have an emotional connection to, and I was with her for 20 years. Although I am very excited by the concept of random sex wjth women, it terrifies me in real life. I feel performance anxiety, inadequate about my body, and a general distrust towards women that are strangers.
I use Viagra as I think it will allow me to get into a confident state and hopefully get over this. I certainly have felt confident when dropping a Viagra and going out recently.
Has anyone ever used Viagra for this purpose, or for a similar purpose, and if so was it able to give you a mental edge?
Note: I use this Mojo program so am not using/relying on Viagra by itself.
Yeah I do this as well. It acts like a bit of a safety net for me. With my last girlfriend I used it until I stopped feeling anxious about having sex then weened off them. I’d still have the occasional about of ED but that was rare. Now I’m back dating various women I’m back using viagra
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Hey! I don’t use viagra, as it’s a non real erection feeling (at least for me) and I’m not sure it makes any good to me. I use tadalafilo (comertial name cialis) that helps with erection, but you still need stimulation, so it feels more real.
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Having used it for both mental and physical purposes, I’ve had both extremes happen. If you’re in your head, Viagra or Cialis won’t help you get it up, it won’t give you an instant boner. I will say that either of them with someone you have an emotional connection with is amazing but it hasn’t worked as a crutch for me. If you’re using it to sleep with randoms, I’d suggest you either focus on building a connection, or make sure that your lust is so high that you just want her badly!
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I’d say if it gives you confidence, use it. If it’s only as a security blanket.
I showed my wife your post and she looks at it differently. She told me about having a holiday fling and going with a guy on her first night. He couldn’t keep an erection, but they still had fun and she was satisfied. He was really embarrassed and admitted later that he was scared she would make a joke of it, perhaps in front of his friends. She absolutely is not like that.
Anyway, she hooked up with a different guy for most of the two weeks.
On the last night, she got chatting to the first guy. He was dead worried about his performance, but she managed to talk him into going with her again. There was absolutely no problems and the sex was great.
Her point is men need to handle the anxiety of ED. No woman expects a man to perform every time, and she believes the vulnerability of a man who is nervous, but still tries, is quite attractive.
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That’s a brilliant perspective. Thanks
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