Hi, I’ve struggled with performance anxiety for well over 3 years. I’m an anxious person anyway. It got to the point where it was ruining my life.
I hadn’t had sex for 1.5 years, I was even having wet dreams. I’d being trying to have sex with women who I wasn’t so attracted to and flopping. Alcohol doesn’t help, but the same usually happens when I’m sober too. I’ve tried some of the mojo techniques, but I’ve not engaged enough
A few weeks ago, after much deliberation. I decided to get viagra. I’d been reluctant because I feared it would make the problem worse.
I had sex and got up which was a relief. It didn’t feel natural at all, but It built my confidence. A few weeks later and I brought someone home, I was drunk and ended up taking viagra again with the same result.
Now I know Mojo says that viagra is a psychological placebo but I disagree. It’s clearly physical. I’m feeling more confident but i still haven’t had natural sex for 2 years and I’m worried I’ll become dependent on viagra.
Has anyone got any advice? Do you think my new (viagra dependent) confidence could mean I might be less anxious without it? Should I stop and just accept I might flop
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I have been struggling with Ed all my life ans for me IT’s really psychological si when I got Viagra prescribed IT didn’t Do shit for me. But m’y doctor and my therapist told me that Viagra van actually help you a lot even if IT’s psychological it’s a crutch that can make you feel more confident and eventually you could have érection on your onw when you don’t expert IT. So for me Viagra is not the solution and I don’t think that it’s a permanent solution but surely can help you a lot.
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I’ve been doing Mojo for almost a year and in my case it helps to a certain degree. I had a couple good experiences and then I got a set back and back to zero again and again which for me it’s really frustrating!! Im 47 years old and I said to my self I would give viagra/levitra a try and it was awesome no to worry about the erection and so far no let downs. Even my wife noticed that I was happier and in a good mood which make sex even better!! I know everyone is different but I have a coworker that is been taking Viagra for 15 years and still at the same dose 50mg. So my personal opinion… if mojo is working to a degree continue to take viagra and overtime once you get your confidence back start cutting down on the dose until one day you probably don’t need it anymore but if you do it’s ok… keep talking de medication. I know it’s been said that you will depend on it but at this point in my life I want to be happy and enjoy sex and if viagra can give me that so be it. Again it’s my personal opinion
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How do you deal with/feel about the lack of spontaneity using the pharmaceutical option? I’ve been using pills for years now and it’s great to have the functionality I didn’t have before. But it’s still kind of a downer if something comes up spontaneously/in a quicker timeframe than the hour or so I usually need before the effectiveness starts to kick in. I wish I was a “normal” guy who could just get rock hard at the drop of a hat. And I know that’s the thinking that will kill a boner, but how are you supposed to get over that? If you go into a situation without the pills and things don’t work, then I feel like your confidence is just even more shaken. I don’t know, so far these courses and exercises don’t seem to be hitting home for me with some of that. And the app is being so slow and glitchy, it’s hard to feel like you can make any progress without getting frustrated and annoyed.
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Cialis has a daily option. Takes the worry of the spontaneity out of it.
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