Hi, I’ve struggled with performance anxiety for well over 3 years. I’m an anxious person anyway. It got to the point where it was ruining my life.
I hadn’t had sex for 1.5 years, I was even having wet dreams. I’d being trying to have sex with women who I wasn’t so attracted to and flopping. Alcohol doesn’t help, but the same usually happens when I’m sober too. I’ve tried some of the mojo techniques, but I’ve not engaged enough
A few weeks ago, after much deliberation. I decided to get viagra. I’d been reluctant because I feared it would make the problem worse.
I had sex and got up which was a relief. It didn’t feel natural at all, but It built my confidence. A few weeks later and I brought someone home, I was drunk and ended up taking viagra again with the same result.
Now I know Mojo says that viagra is a psychological placebo but I disagree. It’s clearly physical. I’m feeling more confident but i still haven’t had natural sex for 2 years and I’m worried I’ll become dependent on viagra.
Has anyone got any advice? Do you think my new (viagra dependent) confidence could mean I might be less anxious without it? Should I stop and just accept I might flop
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I have been struggling with Ed all my life ans for me IT’s really psychological si when I got Viagra prescribed IT didn’t Do shit for me. But m’y doctor and my therapist told me that Viagra van actually help you a lot even if IT’s psychological it’s a crutch that can make you feel more confident and eventually you could have érection on your onw when you don’t expert IT. So for me Viagra is not the solution and I don’t think that it’s a permanent solution but surely can help you a lot.
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How do you deal with/feel about the lack of spontaneity using the pharmaceutical option? I’ve been using pills for years now and it’s great to have the functionality I didn’t have before. But it’s still kind of a downer if something comes up spontaneously/in a quicker timeframe than the hour or so I usually need before the effectiveness starts to kick in. I wish I was a “normal” guy who could just get rock hard at the drop of a hat. And I know that’s the thinking that will kill a boner, but how are you supposed to get over that? If you go into a situation without the pills and things don’t work, then I feel like your confidence is just even more shaken. I don’t know, so far these courses and exercises don’t seem to be hitting home for me with some of that. And the app is being so slow and glitchy, it’s hard to feel like you can make any progress without getting frustrated and annoyed.
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Cialis has a daily option. Takes the worry of the spontaneity out of it.
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