Are people here still using sexual aid (Viagra)?

Having anxiety about whether or not I’ll get an erection has caused me to use Viagra. However it doesn’t necessarily always work. Even with 100mg sometimes I’m still not able to get hard. I know that this is because I get too nervous and overthink the situation and the fight or flight kicks in. The past 2 times with this girl I’ve been seeing has been incredibly successful! But the two times before that were the complete opposite.
I want to know with the other successful stories I’ve read on here, have they been completely natural or are people still using Viagra or other means to help? Should I stop before I start to rely on it?

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I too have found Viagra a bit hit and miss - and often gives me a headache!

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I used it a few times and it never work, but that gave me some closure knowing it was just all in my head. I’m assuming it’s the same with you, viagra only works by pumping more blood flow down there, but if your anxiety isn’t letting blood flow down there at all it won’t work.

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When it works, it works well! But you’re right, if it’s in my head then that’s always going to stop anything from working. It would be nice if it was a miracle pill that doesn’t let thoughts win. Mind over matter seems to work better than any blue pill ever will! Think next time I’ll try without now that I’m getting comfortable being around this person. Wish me luck!

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Try tadalafil over viagra but yeah it’s not a miracle cure. I’d sometimes find I need ‘start myself off’… I.e, play with yourself a little to get the blood flowing and then once you’re at that point I’d find my brain would accept that we can get a boner and it’d be okay :joy:

I think Viagra works just fine, especially once you can focus on the foreplay and being in the moment. I’ve also cut the dose down to a quarter of the recommended amount. It’s pretty powerful and taking a smaller dose gives me the confidence boost, but also doesn’t make me feel Like I have any side effects.

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Cutting down the dose is maybe not a bad idea. I don’t want it to start becoming a placebo effect. It’s just another thing to then worry about if I don’t have any so I’m trying to get away from it before I get too attached!

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I got some Viagra online “just in case” but was leery of using it. (I generally avoid pretty much all drugs except aspirin and vitamins.) I don’t like messing with my body chemistry - especially with a drum designed for heart patients.

Turns out, I never really had the opportunity/need to use it. If the situation is right, “things” work. The Viagra stays unused in the nightstand.

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Same. Viagra used to work like a charm for me but now it’s hit and miss. Looking forward to getting my head right and hopefully never needing it.

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I would advise anyone to stay away from viagra! All this did for me was make me think- I can’t get it up without it! I’d never take a whole 50mg. I’d cut it in to 4 and take a small bit! This was enough for me to calm down a bit and relax which probably aided the natural way of getting it up! It’s all in your head! And when taking viagra- this also gets in your head!!! I’d use it only when I felt I was desperate! It’s a good tool- for sure! But I don’t agree with pushing this little blue pill- especially with anxiety based erection problems! For me this just aided my anxious mind! I’m staying well clear of it! Just my personal opinion! Been 2 years messing with it- and if you don’t get it up when using viagra? This just proves that your mind is just too anxious to focus on erections! Listen to your body! Focus on relaxing and getting out of your head instead. It’s difficult I know this! But when you do get it up- without viagra! It just aids the confidence in your ability to function naturally! I hope this helps somebody out there!

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I have a problem staying hard. Morning wood is really good but “on stage”, junior decides not to play sometimes. Wondering if Rugiet ready will work. Scared to try it.

I have used the yellow pill, and it worked …. Then it stopped working… after doing mojo …. my situation is clearly in my head, but … the pill has a bit of a placebo and confidence boosting effect…
well… I’m also 60 odd so maybe there is also a bit of chemistry going on.
I’m not sure how I’m going to move on this…
mojo is definitely… and I mean definitely working… but a little bit of help is……tempting…

I am using it, becouse I am not so hard, as I was in my young days. And that adds to my anxiety problems.
I have to use just a little, 15-20mg and all is ok. Hard as it was years ago. But only, when I do not have mind problems.
When I have anxiety, it is hard to keep it standing even with 50mg dose.

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