I had been using 100mg viagra for a while to great effect but side effects were quite severe such as headaches and congestion.
I moved to 50mg viagra connect and it was working well but I have since had a failed attempt where i got spooked and couldnt get hard even with the viagra.
Anyone else have this issue?
Iāve had the same. My GP has recommended trying Cialis, which Iāve yet to try. Maybe give that a go. Good luck.
Viagra and Cialis work for physical symptoms and may aid in being somewhat of a placebo for mental ones. Sounds like your issue is definitely more mental in nature. I have same issue and am trying to convince my that a hard penis does not matter and to try to enjoy intimate times shit my partner regardless. Not easy to rewire the brain. I am 48 and first time experienced was after 45.
It has happened to me once because I was really anxious that night. Other times Iāve been erect for 1hr (I have delayed orgasm issues as well).
Iāve used the blue pill and the yellow pill (separately). Had some success but not āsuccessā. 
didnāt stay hard on either of them 
Thanks all. Appreciate it 
Iāve āfailedā Once before on cialis. Cialis worked like a charm for me, always had before. But that woman I āfailedā with, I made
Sorry I fucked up my earlier comment and canāt edit it. I āfailedā on cialis even though it worked like a charm for me before. It wasnāt really a fail since this woman eventually became my girlfriend, but thatās a different story.
I did smoke a lot of weed and had a lot of strong Belgian beers that night, yet I was still anxious about fucking her for the first time and of course the alcohol is an erection killer. If the mindset aināt right, it can be that cialis or Viagra wonāt help you.
The Viagra and cialis help you stay hard but you still need to be aroused. If youāre stressed out and think about other shit, not much will happen down there.
Maybe try it again and see if a different routine helps you. I had one of my better sexual encounters when I went to play squash with this chick. I took the cialis 10 mg before squashing. The exercise helped me get relaxed and out of my head. Then we went to her place and took a shower together and I got so fucking rock hard and had amazing sex.
The drugs will help you but you need to find a way to get out of your head. Find a way to do that and youāll probably see that the Viagra will make you hard again.
I havenāt tried Viagra but I did try the rhino chocolate at the gas station because I was always curious. It didnāt kick in until 2 hours after having sex lol. Uncomfortable sleeping with a boner that last 3 hours
I had a failure with Cialis once, but before starting the program. I have a long distance girlfriend and when she comes to visit, I still do 5 mg Cialis, but also do all the things that Iāve learned here. And sex is so much better now. I might drop the pills eventually and see how it goes, Iām fairly confident Iād be ok.
I got mostly really good results with 20mg Viagra for years, but I do believe the body (specifically the nervous system) can override just about any drug, so thereās that. Also, you could just fall out of the mood or get distracted in a way that you lose your erection. I would also sometimes get to the point that I was hard and getting stimulated, but couldnāt cum (mental block or something?) and then lose it.