Unique Issue with erection

🍆 Erection issues
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Hey all,
I’ve had a lot of success since being on this app. But I still face one issue.

I’m a college student with a long time girlfriend. Recently, I haven’t had an issue with getting an erection. My situation is that when we try to have sex in my bed in my apartment, I still get in my head and lose it during foreplay. But we also went back to my parents house, and I had zero issues getting and keeping an erection. I don’t get it. It’s like my mind knows that since I’m not allowed to have sex in my parents’ house, it’ll give me the best erection. Not sure what to do. I’ll get a boner, but as soon as foreplay begins I lose it. Yesterday, I was able to penetrate. Once I penetrate, I don’t lose my erection. So sex is great once I’m able to actually penetrate.

Does anyone have any advice on how to keep an erection specifically during foreplay? I don’t understand that once we start touching each other, it goes away.

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You simply might not like foreplay. Nothing wrong with that. A lot of girls also do not give good BJs. So maybe just eat her out and then penetrate

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Thanks for the comment. I don’t think that it’s that dislike it, I think it’s my mind saying “if I don’t put it in soon, my erection will disappear”.

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The parents’ home thing may well be related to the riskiness or novelty to it. You could always try to bank that memory and bring it to mind when you’re somewhere else to help things along

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100%. It’s knowing that I shouldn’t. But when I’m in my own apartment, 50% I lose my erection unless I penetrate right away

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I’m in the same boat, once I’m in I’m in and there’s no issue. It’s just I have a tendency to overthink it and either struggle to get it or lose it before