Even with myself during masturbation my erection will go from 100% to like 75% when I touch skin to skin. If it’s over shorts or underwear it will stay 100% but something about the skin to skin. I have no problems looking at it and have done sensate. Curious if anyone has experience with anything similar? Tips for how to help this?
I think it’s your brain thinking it’s gonna go away when it gets touched and that’s what your focusing on, if my gf gives me a hj or bj it’s fine and normal but as soon as I go to put it in my brain wonders if I’ll go soft and it happens
Yeah it’s just weird to me that by myself or with a partner this happens, but if I insert before they touch it doesn’t go away