Is it normal that I canāt get hard alone unless I touch myself?
When I watch arousing visuals I get very excited but no erection until I start touching down thereā¦
I do have morning woods and erection is solid once I get it but once I stand up or stop watching whatever Iām seeing then it starts going down after 10 secondsā¦
Iām the same
Do you think thatās the normal? Maybe Iām overthinking lol
Anyone found a cure for this ?
Similar! When you think about the erection, it goes! Focus on other things or the pleasure you have got
I would cut back on the porn and see if that helps
Iām similar. Itās not always an issue during sex because once I get stimulated by handjob or blowjob I can be fine. But it doesnāt just get going on its own the way it used to!
Kinda strange cos Iād say I have slightly the oppositeš I can still get hard with touch but takes a bit longer than visual. Are you watching a lot of porn? If itās a visual thing it could potentially overstimulation?
I mean visual without touch. Just looking at pictures or whatever and getting hard without touching.
Interesting, theres a few exercises in the app here that might help with this. Have you tried any of the audio story things they have? Might be worth working the imagination muscle to help it stand up better without having to touch down there. Its interesting cus for me its usually the opposite
iām the exact same! trying to cut down on porn but itās been honestly challenging, as in iāll stop for a few days but itās super easy to relapse