Hello all.
I just got the first task earlier today about practicing reverse Kegals. I really feel like I need to process and de-brief that experience. I guess I am just unsure if I was doing it correctly, fine motor skills are something I can struggle with. Because of that, even just reading the exercise, I noticed anxiety and discomfort. I pushed through and completed the task as best I felt I could given it was my first attempt. But i am honestly unsure if I even did anything, much less if I did the exercise correctly.
As I said, fine motor skills are not exactly a forte. When I tried to move any muscles down there, the closest I think I got felt more like trying to poop harder, than it did pee. I put my hand over the area, to see if I could feel movement, and I did feel something, but it was different than how the exercise described it. More like a tightening of skin or a curve type of movement (I’ll be honest, I have some flaps of skin down there, so it could be that).
Am I completely off track? How do I really know if I’ve done this correctly?