Uncertainty about reverse Kegals?

Hello all.

I just got the first task earlier today about practicing reverse Kegals. I really feel like I need to process and de-brief that experience. I guess I am just unsure if I was doing it correctly, fine motor skills are something I can struggle with. Because of that, even just reading the exercise, I noticed anxiety and discomfort. I pushed through and completed the task as best I felt I could given it was my first attempt. But i am honestly unsure if I even did anything, much less if I did the exercise correctly.

As I said, fine motor skills are not exactly a forte. When I tried to move any muscles down there, the closest I think I got felt more like trying to poop harder, than it did pee. I put my hand over the area, to see if I could feel movement, and I did feel something, but it was different than how the exercise described it. More like a tightening of skin or a curve type of movement (Iโ€™ll be honest, I have some flaps of skin down there, so it could be that).

Am I completely off track? How do I really know if Iโ€™ve done this correctly?

This is what did it for me:

https://www.nateliason.com/blog/reverse-kegels

It took a little bit, but I was able to recognize a different sensation.

I posted about it recently.

Alsoโ€ฆI think that working on it during masturbation is the key to finding the technique. So far itโ€™s worked for me to keep my arosal in check.

Thank you for sharing this with me, I will give it a look before trying again.

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@permanentโ€™-yellow-blackbird - thanks for providing the link, I found the information very useful and have bookmarked it for future reference :+1:

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If you can get into a childs pose (yoga). J breathe in deep and imagine the breath going down into your abdomen and down into your pelvis. It might feel like a poop but more toward the front. Childโ€™s pose is also good for positive levels too. Good luck.