I have had performance anxiety issues for over 10 years. I have been with my partner for 4 years and my issues kicked in 2 years ago. Now, I have almost no desire for sex and she feels not desired. We try to have sex occasionally but I rarely managed to relax and get hard. Last time, we didn’t have sex for 1 month and when we tried, I didn’t even want to have sex. I am doing all the exercises for 3 months now but I can’t get out of my mind. It seems like I’m in a vicious cycle. I love my partner and want to be with her, but sexually it seems we are off. And because of the reccuring erection issues, I now have minimal to now sexual desire. Any tips on how to boost my libido and reduce my performance anxiety to a minimum? Thanks
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I don’t have any answers for you, but I just wanted to let you know your story is identical to mine and what I’m struggling with. If it helps at least y know you’re not the only one. Hang in there.
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Same. Would also like to know
If I were you, I’d get down on my knees and thank the Creator that I still have a willing partner who loves me! Then I’d sit down with her and candidly and tenderly describe to her exactly – I mean EXACTLY – whatever seems to be hanging me up. If it feels like something physical, you might want to consult a professional counselor, either by yourself or with your partner. I give you my best wishes and fond hopes that you manage to sort out the problem while your partner’s still of a sympathetic frame of mind.