My wife and I started to try to conceive this week. We have been so excited waiting for this moment. I have had on and off issues with erections my whole life, but nothing major.I am 30 years old also. This week I could not get an erection at all and just came out of the blue. One of the weeks I was looking most forward too, turned into the worst of my life. I have tried to get back to my old self but her fertile window is almost over. Any advice or has anyone experienced something like this?
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I think it’s the pressure feeling you have to perform on command that’s causing it. Just relax, try to have fun and enjoy it! I remember us getting into a fight the first time we were trying because I was nervous… by the time we were trying with number 3 it was natural and a huge turn on for me… which ultimately lead to number 4 lol. Good luck!
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Have you tried foreplay heavily? When I can’t get hard, my gf will be patient and lick my balls for a long time while playing with my taint. That usually eventually gets me hard and sometimes I watch porn while she does that (online porn or our homemade porn). Once you get hard, don’t waste time and just penetrate her. Even if you don’t last long, just enough to get in and cum in her to conceive.