My wife and I have been trying for almost a year, and every month when shes ovulating I struggle with erections. I feel like I’m subconsciously thinking the pressure is on as it’s taking longer than expected, which leads to getting stuck in my head and subsequent erection issues. I definitely want a kid so I don’t think it’s my body secretly not wanting one!
Wondering if anyone has gone through something similar and has any tips and tricks to help keep calm and focus on the love making rather than worrying about not being able to get it up. Thanks!
I tis very common to struggle with erections when babies are on or off the horizon! Using the Mojo app will hopefully help you get out of your head/ or unconscious ‘head’, get back into your body and arousal. It will be helpful to talk to your wife about what is happening for you. Perhaps you will need longer in the fore play - learning that you can get hard, lose it and get it back. the waxing and waning helps with this! It is a stressful time - make sure you keep enjoyment in the relationship - have fun too! : )
Hey m8 recently did have completely same problem, well only thing i did get it after 3 years of trying, and after couldn’t perform onec problem would repeat.
Now thenks to mojo wey less problem.
For me most helpful was just finding out if he go down i can relex and try again .
Also did quit porn completely - that help with being in mood, daily meditation and bpox breathing, for me also healthy food and exercise (kegel).
So my problem with performance pretty much fix, on other hand my problem with getting kid still nothing unfortunately.
So wish you all the best m8
Trying for a baby can make sex feel like work. Can take some of the joy away, put on more pressure. When we were trying we focused on building romance as much as possible leading up to the act — that’s what ifs all about anyway! That helped it feel natural for me and less pressured.