Hey everyone,
I found mojo about 3 months ago to help my issue of ED when my wife is on top.
It started when I was feeling sweaty after a workout and I couldn’t shake the feeling out of my head and went soft during her on top. The next time, she wore lingerie and the same thing happened, her on top and I started spectatoring, worried i was going to lose it and I went soft.
Now 3 months in to the mojo journey, I’ve seen some small but steady improvements in lasting longer and no ED issues in any other areas but still when she’s on top. I hate it because it’s her favourite position and she thinks it’s her but I try and reassure her it’s me psyching myself out.
Anyone else experiencing this and tips on how you got over it?
Thanks in advance and good luck on everyone’s journey!
Yeah, I can 100% relate to this. I love it when she’s on top, but my rhythm is terrible awful and is very much on my mind when she getting on board. Sorry I haven’t got much in the way of useful advice. Here’s hoping consistent effort using this app does the trick 
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I can relate I also speculate when my wife is on top . I would either start to lose erection or just cum really fast . I am not sure exactly why . I think, in my head I need to be Rock hard for it to work well . I have also had a couple incidences were it poped out I it hurt pretty bad . So this I think gets planted into my brain and makes it hard to just enjoy the sex . On the plus side you are having good sex in every other position so celebrate that . I would also try to talk to your wife about it you may be surprised how much that could help . Lastly stop putting so much pressure on yourself . You’re human not a robot ! I be Praying you can give yourself grace and enjoy sex with your wife !
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For useful tricks I would say focus on her less on how hard you are . Trust me I know it not easy to do . Do things like grabbing her back , make out , suck on here nipples if she’s into it , tell her how much she turns you on . These things have worked for me . Can twait to hear success stories !
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Dude something I’ve noticed and it might not be the same for u but- I get soft easier when I lay down as compared to when I’m standing. I just maintain a stronger, longer erection standing. So my guess is there is smtg about the blood flow laying down that don’t work for me. I suggest trying more positions that “hit” the same for your wife and maybe work ur way back to the laying position.
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There is a physical sensation that is different if you are talking about on top cowgirl. If you mean laying on top then that is something different.
Here is what I can tell you about the cowgirl position. Women get more sensation grinding in this position. Usually she will lower herself all the way down on you and begin rocking her hips back and forth. This stimulates her clit. She also might grind hard. It has been my experience that she can gain a tremendous amount of pleasure grinding her pubic bone. However, for me it can become a little painful. The solution is not to rock and grind, but to slide up and down every so often. You both get enjoyable sensations in different ways. Since it is not constant stimulation, it can usually last a while. Hope that helps.
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Thanks everyone for your replies and support!
Definitely agree that top cowgirl is a different sensation, I love pleasing her and put so much pressure on her Cumming in our favourite position that it ends up with me losing it and her thinking I’m not attracted to her being on top. Will keep working in getting there and I like the idea of focusing on her, anything to get out of my own head!