Me and my new gf have been playing around with each other loads but no sex. I’ve made her cum heaps and I’ve deliberately not cum so I can save myself to enjoy her today.
I’m a little nervous though, I’m used to being drunk/couple of beers on my first time with a new partner. She’s teetotal and I’ve been off the drink for 47 days.
I have no worries getting it up, just
worry I’m gonna lose it before I get to enter her! Why do I think like this?
I have a similar issue. Yesterday a girl I talk to visited me for Valentine’s day. When we were making out I was hard af. When we got our closes off I started paying attention to the fact that I am not hard enough. We’ve found out yesterday, that what helps me is when she strokes me when I get soft in such moments while I concentrate on my breathing. In few minutes I was hard again and we’ve had a good time having sex.
Unfortunately, I couldn’t orgasm during sex because of similar moments of spectatoring. But sex on its own was very fun. I think that practicing switching attention to pleasure helps. At least it seems to be the case for me
Nice work man!!
Opening up and being vulnerable seems to be key for a lot of us!!