So I got a new girlfriend, even been together for a couple months and are extremely in love. We have been having sex for around 4 times a day. It was perfect! She always tells me how good I am and how she has never been so wet in her life. Until one day I think all the sex caught up to me on I got soft, I started to panic, this has never happened before. Since then I’ve had problems keeping an erection or even getting one at all! It’s all I think about all day and I have constant anxiety for the next time we have sex, and I tell myself I can get hard and then it actually happens. If I could just veer off thinking about it 24/7 I feel like it wouldn’t be an issue. Anyone have any tips? Thanks!
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Just know you’re not alone, I’ve been going through the same thing for almost two years. It gets better, try oral sex for a bit. Then go slow and let her know it might happen and we may need to try a few times.
Was in the same boat. I was too scared to tell her what was on my mind but eventually I did. She was very supportive and decided to make me feel really relaxed and focus on me. After she did that for a little my erection problems went away. To be quite fair, just try laying down while she gives u oral. It really focuses on you and ur stimulation.