i’ve just met this girl for the first time at a friends party and we connected well and we went to her place after but i had some issues getting hard but i eventually did but kept getting soft and we thought we could try it again but i couldn’t get an erection at all even though i find her super attractive and i think we won’t be seeing each other again, any tips or tricks on how to stop getting so damn anxious
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#1. Open up to her that you’re nervous/anxious/ etc. She’s likely thinking you’re not attracted to her and I’m sure that’s not true!!
i did tell her and she understood but i get she was disapointed
If you do get the chance again… I’d focus on her pleasure. If you can make a woman cum with your tongue- and actually like doing it- that’s a huge plus.