When I was 18, I hung out with a girl for sex but couldn’t get an erection. I’m now 23 and haven’t tried again since because I thought it wasn’t normal that I couldn’t get an erection so I was scared that if I do it won’t happen again. I have been avoiding it for YEARS. Now I’m insecure of still never having a true sexual experience and I really want to but I just don’t know how to rip the bandaid off. A girl wants to hangout this week…should I just do it? I really want to but it’s just so nerve wracking
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You really are in my shoes , my first experience was similar to yours and the boring part the lady made things worse coz she laughed at me and asked me how the relationship was to work if my thingy wasn’t working . I chose peace and broke up with her , I’ve had sex after that but first times with a new lady are always difficult for me as the trauma still haunts me .
If she is into you she will help you through the entire process. All the best and don’t let the past limit your future
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You should go for it and face your fears head on! Do you think she’s someone you could open up to about your fears? If she is then that could really help!
Go for it, approach it with nonchalance.. if it doesn’t happen, it doesn’t happen. Take all expectation out of it.
Do it but be up front with what your experiencing. And make sure you work at it in mojo with the exercises and all the videos. I’ve experienced this issue for almost 30 years with new women but improved greatly with mojo
I’ve considered this but then idk if it’s wrong for me to pay for sexual interaction