I love using my fingers. After a lot kissing, touching, and grinding I will slowly caress the vulva and simultaneously kiss them wherever they signal their erogenous areas until they let me know they want more or are I can tell are just feeling it and are wet. I’ll then insert finger(s) and use the beckon gesture around her G spot until they respond pleasurably to it. In my experience it seems often to be most effective for me to keep a consistent and long enough motion to have them cum. I then like to move onto other positions and already climaxing once she will be warmed up to other positions we try.
G-spot with fingers, and stimulating the clitoris with your tongue 
Licking the clit while two fingers are inside stroking the G spot.
Beckoning motion with two fingers on her g-spot. It works really well.
Give the clit a blow job
Delay touching most sensitive spots
Oral
Licking and fingering her
Lots of foreplay. Light touches all over the body. Appreciate everything. Women are much more willing to do, instruct and be vocal if they are comfortable, relaxed and appreciated! Definitely manscape! I will go for the clit if clothes are on, we are sneaking a little touch in public (discretely), dancing while making dinner or from behind during domestic chores! This is only to stimulate and tease. Not to finish and is usually only for a few seconds. Builds ecstasy! Keep it spicy!
switching between stimulating the clitoris and g-spot
Teasing the vulva with the fingertips then the clitoris with the tongue while using the fingers to stimulate the Gspot and the anus
While in “cowgirl”, try rubbing her clit. Tends to drive them crazy.
Lateral licking of the clit
Her sitting on my face
Starting with the nipples. Then licking the clitoris .
All bodies are different, but something that usually works for me is giving oral sex and building up to it. So not simply aiming for the vagina and then to the clitoris, kissing a lot, going back and forth, taking your time to enjoy it as well. Some women also like if men are a bit dominant, so holding their hands if you are on top of them or grabbing their hair, body or neck SOFTLY.
My girlfriend tells me that she has orgasms better than she’s ever had when I lick her pussy and clit, while inserting two fingers inside her. When I sense she’s coming, I speed up the motion of my fingers and keep licking her clit. She comes like she’s going to explode and I love it!!
For my girl, kissing her neck and ears is a massive turn on. Anything that hits her G spot overthrows her mind
Not too experienced / am working on being more selfless to women in bed but in past generally best experiences have been when im calm/present and dont rush / incorporate more teasing + build up.
Kissing First Gently and then with more intensity