My lady friend loves foreplay and her big tits being sucked and licked which I do too. This always makes her super wet and this is followed by finger fucking her until she cums, 3 or 4 fingers inside slow to begin with plus using my tounge on her clit then build up the rhythm until she cums big time and withdraw my fingers at that point then gently lick her labia and clit.
Great advice thanks, going to try this tomorrow
Providing oral sex to hear from behind as she crouches on all fours. Alternate between her pussy and booty hole as she likes. Slowly build the vigour and enter her with your penis for sporadic periods, before returning to oral sex
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Foreplay is great, but as soon as I saw the penetration picture I started feeling my erection waning from fear of feeling pain. I think I found my issue but not the solution.
What kind of pain, brother? Is it related to having a foreskin and being uncomfortable rolling it back?
Important is to be a tender, caring, and considerate lover. Inject sensuality in every touch of their body, look at them with eyes of serene pleasure and enjoyment, and kiss their body tenderly and sensually. French kissing as your hands caress their body and you embrace tenderly, I really enjoy this and most partners enjoy, genuine and sincere gestures, show them how much you appreciate them. Don’t mechanically grab them, but tenderly embrace them, and give them a sense of your urgency through your hands and your kisses, how much you want them.
I like to tease by kissing and licking the inside of their thigh and slowly work my way inward until I get to their pussy. When there it’s not yet as I sort of kiss gently a few places or sort of polkadot with my tongue lightly or even doing so gently with my lips and even breathing on their pussy at this point, not to mention tell them how sweet they taste or how pretty their pussy is, look up at them when you say it and see them look down to you, flash a smile, wink up at them, really make her feel you are enjoying her body tremendously (which you should be, get into giving mode, be a natural and generous giver, almost always, and truly enjoy doing so, there is tremendous satisfaction to be had in seeing how pleased you can make her, savour this). Also, check in, “is this OK?,” “are you alright?,” “how’s this?,” it gives them a chance to guide you or give you the green light if you’re doing something right, they really appreciate when you are being attentive and considerate, be genuine in this action and be a good and sincere listener, again, be in complete giver mode and truly enjoy the opportunity to hold them tenderly and embrace them and their body. Whisper sweet nothings, like “I want to lick every inch of your body,” and mean it. Anyway, you can tease away from the pussy once you worked your way kissing down one thigh, and then follow with kissing up the opposite thigh away from their pussy. Then return straight to the pussy, but gently and carefully, applying more direct pressure like broad strokes of your tongue, or sideways/up-and-down/circular motions of your tongue on the clitoris. Sucking gently on the clitoris when they’re ready. Or broad strokes of the tongue from bottom to top of the length of the vulva, or from top to bottom. And look up at them, hopefully you’re positioned in a way that’s comfortable for you, but do so in the same way you like her to look up at you when she’s going down on you. Be sensual and tender. And don’t forget your hands in this instance when giving her oral, caress her breasts, or place a hand or both spreading her inner thighs and caressing back and forth, squeeze, or wrap your hand(s) behind caressing the outer thigh to butt, squeeze according to the correct pressure she enjoys, or wrap one arm under abd around one thigh and have your hand caressing or even applying a gentle pressure on her abdomen.
Anyway, it’s best to get to the point where you are listening through your body and theirs, intuitively touching them and moving towards the stimulation they respond positively to, reading their body attentively. I derive so much satisfaction to see them enjoying what I’m doing for them.
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When it comes to penetration, explore teasing the entire length of your erection in slow long strokes. Explore being all the way in and in addition to also pelvic thrusting in and out while being all the way in, explore an up and down motion so your pubic-bone can stimulate their clitoris. Explore a circular motion in thrusting. Go slow and making your pelvic thrusting a sensual affair for both of you, as such savour the sensations of being inside. Don’t forget your hands, again, be sensual in touch with your hands. Kiss their body while you’re inside, kiss their neck, breathe on their neck, have your face close to hers and breathe together, kiss her face, embrace in French kissing while you’re inside and your hands are on her body. Even in doggy, round your back to try to get your tongue to her back and lick up to her neck, also bring your face close to hers and breathe together, kiss each other. It’s the greatest when you feel each other breathing together, in synchronicity. Not every guy likes doing this, but I moan softly under my breath in such instances, enough to hear me if she’s into hearing me enjoying it (nothing over the top, a subtle moaning is all), to join her in a soft chorus of mixed moans of pleasure. Be tender, embrace her sincerely, genuinely enjoy the moment of connection, if you’re sincere they respond well generally. Hold them gently but firmly making them feel cared for and protected, not to mention adored.
It varies hugely between people. The most important thing is to start slow and gentle and you can ramp things up depending how they respond. Lots of teasing always leads to more intense sensations and a better orgasm. And as the course pointed out, if something’s feeling good, stick with that rhythm and pressure as best as you can. I’ve found giving head while gently fingering the g-spot has pretty good success with most people.