Teens who have recently lost their virginity but had poor performance

I got on this app about 9 months ago. I was (and still am) 17, just gotten into my first relationship, and when the time came to lose my virginity, I had a hard time getting it up. It didn’t bother me much, I assumed I was nervous considering it was my first time. To be safe, I bought a honey pack for the 2nd time. To my surprise, I still couldn’t get it up. That’s when I downloaded Mojo because I thought I had a problem. In reality, I pretty much self-sabotaged myself with stress. I was so worried about getting it up that when the time came my stress kept it down. As I grew closer and closer to my partner, my issue slowly started to subside. My point is, if you’re a teen that’s recently lost his virginity but had poor performance, it’s almost certainly a psychological or confidence issue, and will more than likely resolve quickly. Don’t stress too hard. Maybe avoid hookups and look for a relationship with someone who will be understanding to help build on that confidence part. One thing that helped me was I stopped masturbating. It wasn’t easy, but it re-sensitized my penis, making the sensations during sex much stronger. I know this following information might be a traditionally bad or risky tip, but here’s something I credit as to helping me overcome my issue; for your first few times having sex, make sure it’s with a partner you’re comfortable with who you know for certain doesn’t have any STI’s, and don’t wear a condom. The sensations are much stronger without one, and it’ll encourage an erection. I personally didn’t start finishing during sex until a few months in the relationship, but I can’t speak for everyone. Once you can consistently have sex with your partner a few times without a condom and going on semen retention, you’ll build the confidence necessary to get it up on its own, and can start using a condom again. It’s all about building confidence with yourself and connection with your partner. Mojo is great and goes over all of this stuff, as ED is almost always a psychological thing. So really put your focus on anything confidence related that is offered in this app. Just wanted to share my story and let any other teens that are struggling hear from someone they might be able to relate to before I cancel my subscription and delete my account. Thank you all

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Bro you’re 17 keep exploring you’ll be good in time nothing to worry about

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Sorry didn’t read your full thread this is awesome I’m 24 and been struggling with my gf. Glad you’re doing well bro I haven’t been consistent with mojo at all and I’m a chronic masturbater but I’m going to make it my business locking in this month

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