Talk with your partner

So I’ve been having problems with staying hard and sometimes even becoming hard but recently I’ve gotten hard like crazy and could go round after round this only happened after I talked to my partner about some issues we’ve been having not exactly sexual related but just problems that have made our relationship quaky we had a long nice talk tears were shed and ever since I’ve been able to get hard much easier and last for longer sex also seems alot more pleasurable.

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Clear, respectful communication goes a long way! But it’s also not easy, especially in long-term relationships. Really glad that you were able to make such progress. Wishing you continued success.

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I was married for 16 years. During that time we never spoke about this stuff, and we were generally bad at communicating.
Now, I am 3 months into a relationship with a woman who has literally blown my mind with her openness around talking about anything and everything. She has demonstrated the beautiful art of communicating fully and comfortably. It’s such a huge difference, communication = connection = love.