Erections before and during sex

I just can’t seem to stop thinking about letting her down sexually. The first time we had sex i lasted very long and I didn’t finish. The second time I was so worried about finishing that I became soft. Then the third time, I was so focused on staying hard that it went soft the second we started. It’s now gotten between my relationship and ended things.

I found that talking openly to my partner worked. I disclosed I had a lot going on in my life, I reassured her that I am very sexually attracted to her but on speaking with a doctor he said it’s very common and to ensure I let her know.

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