Does anyone have thoughts or experience of ways to stir the pot and tease your partner/stimulating teasing such as sexting, making comments or things to help keep the sex alive and reignite the fire?
I feel like I grew up in such a conservative world - sex was barely talked about. So, I turned to porn. This has crippled me in my marriage because I have really vulgar and explicit thoughts but they are a bit too much for my partner (at least as we currently stand). I’d rather be flirting and more suggestive with my woman than keeping it in my head. I’ve suggested it - but it’s back in my court and I’m not sure how to move forward and things to do/say. The last thing I want to do is text a dick pic to someone who isn’t my wife on accident…or worse, have one of my kids stumble upon that.