I’ve been with my girlfriend for around 2 years, I love her so much and find her incredibly attractive still but I’ve been struggling over the last year when it comes to sex as I’m over thinking everything and it kills my mood. It’s like I have this voice that tells me I’m not going to be able to get erect or maintain it. I’ve tried to tell myself it’s all in my head but it just takes over.
My girlfriend has been great and reassures me that everything is ok but I still feel a lot of pressure as she has quite a high sex drive which, at the moment, I can’t match.
I know it’s all in my head but I’m struggling to overcome it.
Any suggestions?