I’m really trying. I have the drive sometimes when I visit my long-distance gf. I find her attractive and I adore her to pieces, but the drive leaves so fast. And I have trouble keeping it up when we have our fun. I’m always disappointed in ruining her fun, but I don’t want to make her feel insecure as if I don’t find her attractive, it’s fucked ><
Hopefully going through Mojo’s content you can begin to work out what is going on. Important to rule out any medical issues. If all ok, you will be able to pin point when you go ‘off the boil’ in the arousal ‘graph’. You might need to work on getting back into your body, using imagery to help turn you on by yourself - so you can use it when you are with your girlfriend. It would be helpful if you can share what is going on for you - it will take some of the pressure off. Very normal for an erection to go down and then come back up! Mojo will help you practice this and get your confidence back! : )
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