Still no Orgasm after sex

Recently my wife and I did the sensate couples message. After that we went to bed. The next morning we decided to make love. I was hard when we started and it felt great. She was able to have an intense orgasm before I entered her. When I entered her it was going pretty good, the. My inner critic started- and then I started thinking too much; is she wet enough, am I thrusting too hard, why am I going soft? It was enough for me to end our session, but we talked afterward and bout my wife an I were ok with it. I felt disappointed - that I didn’t orgasm, but not about our lovemaking. I need to build up my inner coach to prevent this from happening in the future. Any suggestions?

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Just don’t think too much and start slow and build it nicely

Dude, honestly it sounds like a success. She orgasmed. You guys talked. She sounds incredibly supportive. You know it’s your inner critic just fucking with you. Stick with it! You got this.

This is my reason for mojo…so many ifs and buts running through my head during the act its a aex killer.