It might be a moment or a general feeling.
I’ve never had an orgasm and it makes me feel broken. My partner gets frustrated when I don’t finish.
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I begin to question whether I fancy my girlfriend enough, even though I adore her
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I haven’t had an orgasm in 6 years. It started getting difficult for me to reach and then tapered off entirely. I’ve tried toys, lube, different positions and I still tense up when it starts to feel good
My partner finishes too quickly
I start to get the pleasure and work up to orgasm then it just goes away and I can’t get it back
Orgasm isn’t even a thing that happens when I masturbate - in fact, I’ve gotten way closer to it with a partner than I even have on my own. But it’s still never happened for me
I can generally orgasm easily on my own, but only with a vibrator. I have never orgasmed with a partner and I feel like I need to introduce a vibrator to get there and feel anxiety doing that because men are fragile.
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I feel like I get all the build up and then it’s like nothing happens. Even when I try to pleasure myself on my own
I can always orgasm alone using my hand, but I have to be watching porn. When my girlfriend eats me out I never get close.
I have only been able to cum while in cowgirl but have recently been masturbating. I probably climax 2 out of 5 times while on top and have not been able to complete a climax on myself, my wrists hurt right when I am getting close and about to release… so after it builds and builds, I end up losing it entirely.
Why I can orgasm easily on my own but not with partners
I can only orgasm with a vibrator but never manually. I can only do it in one position too and it makes me feel inadequate/boring (I lay on my back while my partner lays next to me and kisses me). It gives me anxiety when I’m being intimate with my now new partner
I have found out that the only way I can orgasm is alone, no toy and via clitoral stimulation. Even when my partner does this for me, I can’t orgasm. It’s the most frustrating thing ever.
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I have orgasmed before and I still do just not as often and I believe it’s because I am 52 and I’m always worried about what my body looks like
I have never orgasmed. I have a loving ad attentive partner and I get what’s called “drop off” at the most intense part then I’m super turned off. I feel guilty because I was to retreat and my partner wants to feel connected to me !
I can’t seem to shut my thoughts off and engage myself fully in what I’m doing. My head is full of negative self talk about my body and it’s so loud that it’s all I can focus on.
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Sometime I feel numb. Sometimes it feels good and then I just lose it.
Mental focus when it comes to orgasms.
I can only orgasm with clit stimulation even though penetration feels good
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