When it comes to orgasm, what feels most frustrating or confusing for you right now?

It might be a moment or a general feeling.

I’ve never had an orgasm and it makes me feel broken. My partner gets frustrated when I don’t finish.

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I begin to question whether I fancy my girlfriend enough, even though I adore her

I haven’t had an orgasm in 6 years. It started getting difficult for me to reach and then tapered off entirely. I’ve tried toys, lube, different positions and I still tense up when it starts to feel good

My partner finishes too quickly

I start to get the pleasure and work up to orgasm then it just goes away and I can’t get it back

Orgasm isn’t even a thing that happens when I masturbate - in fact, I’ve gotten way closer to it with a partner than I even have on my own. But it’s still never happened for me

I can generally orgasm easily on my own, but only with a vibrator. I have never orgasmed with a partner and I feel like I need to introduce a vibrator to get there and feel anxiety doing that because men are fragile.