I recently had a one night stand over the last weekend and while it was easy to start hard over oral sex i found that i would shrink or harden less when a condom was rolled on, this isn’t the first time this has happened, It happend with my ex who i had a love connection with, anyone else get this issue? any advice?
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I’ve had this issue, for me it was more the action of putting it on, being watched putting it on, that put me off
Putting on a condom is disruptive, and I try to get out of that phase of a relationship as quickly as possible to avoid it.
Not that’s not terribly good advice. Kegels should help. You can also try holding your penis at the base really tight while putting on the condom essentially restricting blood flow.
I used to be the same way. It was one of the reasons I switched to a monogamous relationship. It was a taking a break right in the heat of things that turned me off. I mean, my soldier would actually go limp but the time I got the condom on.
I have this too, for me any type of condom i use i feel less sensation so the stimulation is a lot less hence losing the erection. I do use cialis currently which helps but my partner knows (in a fairly new relationship. All about communication
Yeah I get it. The best advice I found is to get a partner to sexily put it on instead of doing it yourself. But easier said than done in a new partner of course…