Staying hard with condoms

I recently had a one night stand over the last weekend and while it was easy to start hard over oral sex i found that i would shrink or harden less when a condom was rolled on, this isnโ€™t the first time this has happened, It happend with my ex who i had a love connection with, anyone else get this issue? any advice?

1 Like

Iโ€™ve had this issue, for me it was more the action of putting it on, being watched putting it on, that put me off

Putting on a condom is disruptive, and I try to get out of that phase of a relationship as quickly as possible to avoid it.
Not thatโ€™s not terribly good advice. Kegels should help. You can also try holding your penis at the base really tight while putting on the condom essentially restricting blood flow.

I used to be the same way. It was one of the reasons I switched to a monogamous relationship. It was a taking a break right in the heat of things that turned me off. I mean, my soldier would actually go limp but the time I got the condom on.

I have this too, for me any type of condom i use i feel less sensation so the stimulation is a lot less hence losing the erection. I do use cialis currently which helps but my partner knows (in a fairly new relationship. All about communication

Yeah I get it. The best advice I found is to get a partner to sexily put it on instead of doing it yourself. But easier said than done in a new partner of courseโ€ฆ