I’m 27, never had ED issues in the past, but similiar to another guy’s post in here, I recently met a girl after almost 2 years of celibacy (i was very emotionally distressed after my last girlfriend left me to move states and had no motivation to find another for years) and now this girl i met a month ago and I started having sex. I can’t keep my erection and she has told me about her ex being a “machine who could go six times in a night” which only made me feel more pressure. Going to start this course because I have no problem staying hard on my own, but when I’m with her it’s like an overwhelming anxiety washes over. Any advice from guys who have had similiar situations would be appreciated. Thanks!
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Drop the girl why would you want to be with someone who talks about there ex like that in that way
Like they said above, that comment is not at all helpful but possibly wasn’t meant in a cruel way. If a problem has come from something said in conversation, that’s probably where the solution has to come from too. Have you tried being open with your partner? Sounds like your last breakup was rough so it’s natural to need time to get back into it.
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Like sole-jade-ferret mentioned, she didn’t say it in a bad context, as we were discussing some things about past relationships when she brought it up. It’s just weighed heavily on my mind, and we haven’t discussed it again nor do I plan too. Tbh we rushed into things fast and her last relationship was much more recent than mine. We are very open with eachother, and it seems obvious to us both that I’m the one leading us into a relationship when she wants to go slower, and failing to carry out sex when we both want it. I am hoping that time and self-work is the answer
If her ex was going 6 times a night…he was enhanced by viagra and prob had ED issues of his own
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I came down here to write the same thing!