I’ve never had ed issues before, especially in the first stages of our relationship. She was my first but she’s been with a few other people before myself. I don’t know what happened but dog hurt before she left for 6 weeks of training I started getting ED problems. I was really hoping they’d go away before she got back but it’s been about 2 weeks since she’s gotten back and I’ve been plagued by it. I just don’t know what the issue is and all I want to do it please her. I know there isn’t a lot to respond to but I just need to get this off my chest. I also have a lot of outside stressful factors acting on my life at this moment. Thanks for listening.
Think you might be in your head about her past relationships? Maybe you’re not sure how you compare? Maybe it makes you feel like your not up to the task.
I don’t think I ever had any issues till my previous relationship, then I started stressing that I couldn’t get hard enough or hard when I needed to. I think for most of its a psychological issue. We get in our heads and messes with us.
I was a walking hard on untill end of last relationship 18 years. With new girl now had problems. Was definitely stress and yes to much comparing. Just told myself to enjoy her in a more selfish way rather than thinking about pleasing her helped a lot. Strange kind of double bluff on my self but it worked. Got rid of the ego kill you know !!
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