I struggled for years until I finally got the shit handled I was having rock hard sex multiple times everyday but then when I switched girls it started happening again
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I can relate. I first had had ED problems about five years ago when I was in my mid-40s. No idea why it started, but it really made my wife feel bad which made me spiral. Over the years. Everythingās been working perfectly fine again until a few weeks ago. We tried to have a quickie. I had a timer in the background for something I was waiting on, and then I couldnāt get it up. Iām pretty sure I wasnāt in the moment. I wasnāt thinking about being sexy and worrying about something else. we both worry now that it might happen again, which is causing it to happen more and we donāt wanna wait another five years to have a spontaneous sex again. I do know that itās in my head that I have a great partner and she knows itās not her fault and I know itās not my fault and sheās OK if I can please her another way for now.
Yepā¦. This happened to me after a breakupā¦ and finding a new girlā¦
The new girl is a bit more experienced than meā¦ and maybe a bit out of my leagueā¦ and I think this started my situationā¦ this may not be your issueā¦ but itās an illustration that different partners can alter your reactionsā¦ mojo is really helpingā¦ and Iām back in the gameā¦. Most of the timeā¦