Having problems again

I struggled for years until I finally got the shit handled I was having rock hard sex multiple times everyday but then when I switched girls it started happening again

2 Likes

I can relate. I first had had ED problems about five years ago when I was in my mid-40s. No idea why it started, but it really made my wife feel bad which made me spiral. Over the years. Everything‘s been working perfectly fine again until a few weeks ago. We tried to have a quickie. I had a timer in the background for something I was waiting on, and then I couldn’t get it up. I’m pretty sure I wasn’t in the moment. I wasn’t thinking about being sexy and worrying about something else. we both worry now that it might happen again, which is causing it to happen more and we don’t wanna wait another five years to have a spontaneous sex again. I do know that it’s in my head that I have a great partner and she knows it’s not her fault and I know it’s not my fault and she’s OK if I can please her another way for now.

Yep…. This happened to me after a breakup… and finding a new girl…
The new girl is a bit more experienced than me… and maybe a bit out of my league… and I think this started my situation… this may not be your issue… but it’s an illustration that different partners can alter your reactions… mojo is really helping… and I’m back in the game…. Most of the time…