Erection issues after a breakup

Have you experienced erection issues after a breakup? Why do you think this happened? What has helped you overcome any erection problems?

My answers are:

  1. Yes
  2. I don’t know
  3. Nothing, I still have them. After my wife (before that girlfriend) of 35 years in total left me a matter of minutes to move in with her boss and left me with the kids. Now I’ve met another woman I struggle to either get or keep it up and am anxious every time i think/know we will be having sex.

Never had any problems with a long term partner in terms of getting it up but it was a horrible relationship and we hardly had sex in the last few years. Have had problems with every single sexual partner since (that’s a span of 15 years) and it’s only getting worse, hence me being here. Think the thing with ED is that when it doesn’t work you question yourself and get anxious the next time and it kind of snowballs. Hopefully this place will help put that into reverse.