OK so I have been with the same partner all my life, 18 years together and we have recently split up. We got together when I was 17.
Since splitting I have been spending time with another girl and we get along really well and there is an obvious sexual attraction there. Things recently got heated and we went up to the bedroom. Started off fine, no problems getting hard or anything, both were really up for it. About a minute after penetration I could feel myself going soft which I really couldn’t understand as this girl is insanely attractive! Anyway, I pulled out and then after that, I couldn’t get hard again. I felt so stupid and embarrassed, I blamed it on the fact that I was worried about her daughter waking up but in all honesty I don’t think that had anything to do with it. I don’t know if it was all of the build up putting pressure on or what. We’re still seeing each other and she wants to try again tonight, she’s even got her daughter staying with her mum. I can’t wait but I’m terrified that the same thing will happen again
Mojo will really help with this. It has done for me.
Relaxing and getting out of your head was the key for me… box breathing is a lifesaver and the meditations are good.
Really it was all in my head…
Good luck sir… you’ve got this…
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Thank you fingers crossed
For sure explain what happened and that you don’t know why. She will appreciate your honesty and you will provide an honest way for you to deal with the problem should it occur again.
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