Hi - ok, this is probably my deepest insecurity and the thing that I think holds me back the most. So my penis is definitely on the smaller side…it’s certainly not the smallest penis in the world, but I’m not exaggerating when I say I’m sure it’s below average. Even though no one has specifically commented on it, I have INTENSE insecurity that I won’t be enough, and that there’s nothing I can do to have penetrative sex. This in my opinion has been the main catalyst for my erectile issues when I’ve been with women…I get terrified that my full boner won’t be enough to please them, so my body automatically doesn’t let me get a boner in the first place so we don’t even have to get to that point. I’m scared to have a full erection in front of someone because I don’t want them to see me and feel like I’m not enough
Has anyone dealt with this? If so, how have you worked to get over these body insecurities? It’s something I think about WAY too much, and I would really like to get to a place where I’m comfortable enough with someone to be open about it…hopefully then I’ll be able to get an erection in front of them and be content with how I look
I also don’t know if anyone has any advice for if I ever do get to that point, the best methods for sex with a small penis. Any recommended positions?