We are a couple who recently opened to full swap with other couples. I never had problems with my partner but now, when we get to meet another couple or in adult clubs I sometimes struggle to get hard and I started taking ED pills. This in a way made things worse because now, if we are going to a date, I get really nervous if for some reason I didn’t take my pills. Anyone on the same situation or able to advise?
Yeah I’ve felt like that for a while. I think it really comes down to performance anxiety. We get too worried that we won’t be able to perform in front of new people and that is a self fulfilling prophecy. I’m hoping that with the exercises and meditations at some point I’ll be able to leave my worries behind and perform normally! Keep trying with them and let me know if you notice any improvements!