Just went on a date with this one girl. We went back to my car went at it for a long time. Whole time during foreplay I’m just not getting hard at all. If I’m not hard right away it’s a wrap. Always been that way. Ended up just fingering her and me leaving disappointed and discouraged, had this story too many times. What’s it gonna take to fix this smh please help
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Damn, sorry to hear it didn’t workout on that date. What were you feeling in the moment? Could you get a sense of what was holding you back? Were you spectatoring?
Not sure. I was very attracted to her and wanted to have sex all night. It’s just I expect to not get hard bc this has been a lifelong issue. Yes I guess I was spectatoring but man I feel like I was 95% into it. I guess that 5% still leaves room for inner critic