So, I was with a girl the other day, it was kind of unexpected. We were laying in bed, and we started cuddling, which was unexpected, and then things escalated a little bit, and I could tell she was getting kind of horny. I was into it, but I wasn’t really getting hard. She’s incredibly attractive, and I’ve known her for some time, but we’ve never been intimate together. She looked at me, and said “I bet your heart is a rock right now” but I wasn’t. When she said that, I really started to get in my head about it, because I feel like I should’ve been really hard. She wasn’t really touching me or anything, but we were just cuddling, and kind of getting touchy-feely. I really don’t know if it’s normal to not be hard in a scenario like that, I’ve always had issues for as long as I can remember, and have really only had one successful sexual experience, and that was kind of surprising because I really didn’t feel confident in myself.
Now, I’m really feeling down on myself because I really wish that I could’ve been horny, and have been able to get hard. I really don’t know why I couldn’t. She was super attractive and I just don’t know what to think. I’m super bummed out, and I feel like it always goes this way, where I’m with a woman, and then I can’t perform.
