Rock hard erections with other girls but wife

Hi guys,

Just wondering if anyone else has ever faced this issue. I love my wife a lot but just don’t feel like having sex with her…? For the same reasons, can’t get my erection hard enough. But the thought of having sex with another girl just gives me a hard on. I am so stressed:(

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I’ve been reading “Mating in Captivity” by Esther Perel and she brings a lot of fresh thinking to understanding the erotic lives of committed partners. I highly recommend it. She also has TED talks and a podcast if you want another way into the content.