I recently got involved in my first sexual relationship. I never thought I would have erection issues as I thought I had a high drive being someone that masturbated nightly. After our first date we tried 3 times and I could not get hard. It was so embarrassing. She was sweet and we kept seeing each other. Second date we tried again, but I didn’t stay hard. We tried again later that night and were able to have sex for a few minutes resulting in my climax, she said she enjoyed it too, and that was how I lost my virginity. We had sex a few times after that. But she had a higher drive than me and would want 20 mins of penetration 2 times per date. I could barely give her a few one time, I’m new to this. And then my stamina got worse to the point it was seconds after entry. So I decided to get help thru this app. We decided to end the relationship today. I brought it up, we spoke, and she said that these issues made her lose her sexual interest in me. It’s humiliating to be quite honest. But I plan to continue to do this training to improve for the next one. I dont plan on letting that stop me from improving what I can.
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Dont man as with every partner it takes time to asjust to their bodies. Had you stayed you would have known.
You have a good attitude. I was able to improve my erections a lot after I failed shamefully and misarebly for plenty of times. Now I am able to have good erections on a somewhat regular basis. Remember that feeling regret of not doing and not trying is worse than shame.