Well my wife and I are pretty much just fuck buddies . No love or intimacy. I came to terms with it. You know take the good with the bad . She told me she wasnt in love with me anymore but was still very attracted to me sexually
We were having sex a few times a week going multiple rounds. This went on a few months
I had great stamina, i lasted long , made her cum and squirt multiple times and she usually tapped out before I finished
And i stayed hard
Things changed when she broke down one night during sex .
She said to me that shes still very much in love with me but doesnt want to be . This affected somehow because since then i been having issues with getting hard and staying hard
It was simple, now it’s complicated. Right?
You knew where you stood, or thought you did. Now she says she does love you after all, but doesn’r want to… What does that even mean? I don’t know and I bet you’re puzzled too. I would think that this confusion is messing with your head and thus with your dick…
I guess in your place I would just try to talk and find out what she means by what she said. You don’t mention whether you still love her?? Is that another question in the mix?
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Wow, I’m confused. So she loves you and the sex was fantastic. Isn’t that what everyone wants. Sounds like an awful lot of talking to really understand the situation is the way out of this.