Premature ejaculation is something I’ve struggled with quite a bit over the years. I got out of a toxic 7 year relationship last July and noticed that this issue cleared up dramatically afterwards. I started seeing someone new about 7 weeks ago. Everything is going great and I’m super attracted to her. In anticipation of us sleeping together, I started masterbating a few times a week and was very successful in increasing my control over my orgasms and dramatically increased how long I could last for. I felt very secure and confident in my sexual abilities and that I had gotten control over my previous issues. Within the last week I’ve started to get anxious about my performance and have begun finishing very quickly during masterbation and finished a lot quicker than I would’ve liked last time I had sex with my new partner. I now feel quite anxious about my performance and am struggling to get properly aroused during solo play, even with the use of porn. Sometimes I can’t erect at all, while others I get erect but am only really half aroused which I think is what’s leading me to finish early. I’ve never had problems getting erect before and I was unable to practice the squeeze method this morning, even with porn, as I couldn’t get erect.
Any thoughts, feedback, or similar experiences would be appreciated